Wednesday, October 31, 2012

Missing You!

"When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure" 
- Author Unknown

The treasure he has left behind is priceless!

Born on October 31, 1934, fourth among six siblings, he grew up into a highly dependable, very spontaneous and unique gentleman. Sometimes to the extent of being called stubborn, he had the ability to stick to his convictions and beliefs much longer than anyone else would and this trait, more often than not, resulted in some good for him and/or his loved ones. A scientist, who due to circumstances could not fulfil his dream of becoming a doctor, settled for a government job and his unmatched dedication, knowledge, intelligence and drive saw him rise from the lowest rung to the position of Head of the institution, a feat which, in today's times of growth by job-hopping, can rarely be fathomed.

Dr. Arun Gopal Jhingran
He along with his wife, a simple lady from the business town of Moradabad in UP, faced all odds and adversities to bring up their two children giving them the best possible education and facilities that the means allowed. Shoestring budgets emanating out of small, no-frills salary paid by the government were good enough for a decent and satisfying living but yearning to acquire and experience luxuries was equivalent to seeing a dream with open eyes. However, over the years, his untiring hard work and his passion to achieve the seemingly unachievable gave him some rewards and he did purchase a house of his own, a used 'Ambassador' car and once in a while, a family vacation would add the much sought excitement to the family's life.

Things, however, took a turn for better towards the end of his career. A FAO Consultancy Project took him out of the country after taking voluntary retirement from the job. A welcome change set in. The constraints hitherto, were removed and the time to live his dreams, began. A luxurious house, a luxury car and almost all the gadgets that would get launched found a place in his home. Three years down the line, when he returned to India, he decided to settle down in a rapidly developing cosmopolitan city and was all set to lead a relaxed life and reap the fruits of the many years of hard work. 

Destiny, though, had other plans. Cruel plans. Or was it jealous of him? Perhaps, the latter, that's why it could not see him enjoying the peace of life after years of slog, for long. 

He left, on the ill-fated day of July 13, 1995. Too soon, for sure!

It's been 17 long years since then. 

I miss you a lot, Papa.

I miss you when I cross a milestone, big or small, in my life for I want to share the joys of my achievements with you; 
Image Courtesy: djdrako.deviantart.com
I miss you when your grand-daughter asks me questions about you and her eyes swell when I tell her that she cannot meet you but can see you only in pictures; 
I miss you when your daughter-in-law makes 'besan laddoos' - your favourite sweet; 
I miss you when, in a solemn mood, I listen to Ghulam Ali, Talat Mehmood and Mukesh; 
I miss you when I make that long distance call to catch up with Mom; 
I miss you today! We all miss you!

To quote an unknown author:
"If tears could build a stairway, 
And memories a lane,
I'd walk right up to heaven 
And bring you home again"

Happy Birthday Papa! 
Where ever you are.

Sunday, October 21, 2012

The (rare) 'Luxury' of a holiday


Heavy rains the night before may have dampened the dry earth around but not the spirits of the 25 member strong group of Montegonians which was all set to make the best of the 2 days long trip to the lush green, un-ruined, un-trampled terrain of Port Antonio, Portland on the north coast of this beautiful island country – Jamaica.

The group consisted of the age range 8 yrs – 82 yrs but the enthusiasm of all was equivalent to that of excited kids who have got a break from the drudgery of school. All were set to make the best of the following two days – away from each one’s respective tensions, attentions and vocations. Even the gentleman who, given a chance, would even sleep in his shop so that not even one customer is missed, was all gung-ho about the trip.

The Journey
The 21-seater mini bus was choc-o-bloc with 25 people (no, we do not offload passengers even if we have oversold – we only need to accommodate our friends in our hearts and physical space is automatically created) each with his/her backpack or duffel bag and some delectable home-cooked food to be used for lunch on day 1.

And behold! For once we followed the pre-decided time schedule and not the Indian Standard Time which we are (in)famous for.

Off we went, on the wide and winding highway, by the side of the Caribbean Sea’s calm waters in hues of blue and green, glittering in the morning sunlight as if a giant sheet consisting of millions of little mirrors glittering in the sunshine was spread across the water. We sure were heading for a good break, a much awaited getaway from our routines.

The breakfast stop at Ocho Rios tricked the mind for a few moments to believe that the trip was being undertaken from Coimbatore to Ooty in South India. Well, one can forgive the mind for that was bound to happen when the ‘Total Treats’ Restaurant had no local customers around and served us hot Masala Dosas, Idlis and Uttappams. Good beginning!

An hour later, with happy taste buds and satisfied tummies, we were heading towards our first ‘tourist’ destination – Somerset Falls

Somerset Falls
boat ride at Somerset Falls (image courtesy: Tripadvisor.com)
Nestled in the lush green rain forest, just off the main highway is the beautiful locale for the Daniels River to plunge through a narrow gorge into a pool of cool, fresh water. The main waterfall, also known as the Bridal Veil, is hidden behind the rocks and we had to spend a considerable time to queue up for the short boat ride to get to it. Few adventurous amongst us took the kayak ride instead of the proper (read conventional) boat. Usually not the one to venture to get too close to rapidly flowing water (don’t count the rapid flow of water from the taps at home), I was in the last group left to take the ride and as luck would have it, the last group was perhaps the most experimental one and I was coaxed to get off the boat, on the rocks right below the base of the Bridal Veil. 
Bridal Veil (Image courtesy: kidnplayja.com)

Thankfully so! The experience was great and the time was too little. The falling water was immensely relaxing and was in fact much better than any other therapeutic massage I have ever had (except for the one in Bangkok..;). Though extremely tempted to take the plunge into the pool below the rocks, I timely remembered my swimming imperfection and decided not to stretch my courageous capabilities too far and took the boat ride back.

Frenchman’s Cove
The final destination for the day – a 42 acre sprawling property with villas hidden amidst the tropical foliage giving them the much sought privacy in such romantic places, the Frenchman’s Cove is an idyllic location for a relaxed vacation right above the Caribbean sea. Considered to be the first all-inclusive resort in the world and (then) frequented by the rich and famous, including the British Royalty, the resort was severely damaged by hurricane Gilbert in the 1980s but has been restored and is fully functional, though no longer as an all-inclusive one.

Frenchman's Cove Villa Interior
The group members settled in their allocated villas and remembered that we had missed something. The lunch!! But ‘Jamaica, No Problem’ attitude prevailed and the supposed to be lunch was consumed as dinner accompanied by lot of real and fake beer (somewhat uncomfortable writing ‘alcoholic’ and ‘non-alcoholic’ for beer).

What followed was a walk at the Errol Flynn Marina & Devon House i-scream (ice cream) as dessert and that was enough to crash in the beds for many – a few hard-core ones did manage to spend a few more hours trying their luck with the playing cards and a brave walk around the Frenchman’s Cove in the dead of the night at 1:00 am. Did meet a couple of ferocious looking dogs running loose on the property however, they apparently found us more ferocious and disappeared quickly.

The Morning After
Frenchman's Cove Beach (Image Courtesy: Laju jaswani)
A very pleasant morning, not a speck of cloud on the horizon, sounds of chirping birds drowned by the occasional roar of the sea crashing against the rocks right below the villa and a cup of hot tea (only few managed to get one before the kettle decided to retire). The cameras were out clicking at various angles capturing the natural beauty of the place against the backdrop of the dew bathed foliage and the blue-green ocean. Wasting no time, we broke our overnight fasts with some continental stuff including lots of fruits, sang the birthday song for one of the senior members of the group on his 70th birthday and dashed to the best feature of the property – its serene, scenic beach. Cupped between two towering cliffs it is perhaps one of the best private beaches of any commercial property in Jamaica. The little stream of the mountain river that joins the sea on one side of the beach gives you an unique option of taking a dip in the fresh water if you have had enough of the salty sea water (trust me, you can never have enough of it).

The Blue Lagoon
Having had our due dosage of salt, reluctantly, the team checked out of the resort to head for the next destination – Boston Jerk Centre. Hot ‘n’ Spicy Jerk Chicken, steamed Breadfruit & Yam washed down with some chilled beer and fresh coconut water was perhaps the best lunch we could have had at that time. Happy tummies headed straight to the ‘World Famous Blue Lagoon’. Some intense negotiations with the boatmen supported by some internal politics between them, the group of 25 happily struck a deal and loaded on to two boats for a joy ride on the Caribbean Sea up to the Winnifred Beach which was buzzing with activity on the national holiday. A brief stopover, a couple of youngsters taking a quick dip (almost like a holy dip at the Sangam), the boats headed back to the eerily calm, bottomless (so they say with the deepest point being 185 ft.) Blue Lagoon. In the normal course, perhaps some would have ventured to swim in the Lagoon but probably the Jerk inside did not allow any scope of adventure.

The Final Stages
Slowly, but surely, the day was giving way to dusk and the holiday spirit was giving way to the thoughts of the soon to set in work routine. Almost like the last flicker of a flashlight before the batteries die out, the final stop at Folly Ruins was a Photo-Op stop (did not find any ruins, though). The final installment of birthday celebrations was completed by way of cake cutting which was also witnessed by a solitary Sea Gull perched on the small visible part of a fallen tree on the waters. One more adventure trip up a narrow road to a place called ‘Bonnie View’ – a once upon a time hotel – proved to be quite an exercise for our driver David and a couple of us who finally managed to get the bus to reverse on a road which was as wide as the bus itself. The view of the Navy Island was worth the exercise.

Curtains drawn. The single bus caravan headed back towards Montego Bay. The restaurant which served us during the onward journey, prepared to receive us on the return journey. This time with Hot Chapatis/Rotis, Palak-Paneer, Dal Makhani and some Chilly Mushroom. For me, the chilled beer before and the masala chai after dinner was good enough. Dinner was just a dividing line between the two beverages.

Our physical selves – content with food & beverages, our mental selves – content with the de-stress and intoxication provided by the luxury called ‘holiday’ and our cameras content with the hundreds of photographs clicked and waiting to be splashed on Facebook, we all reached our most looked-forward-to domains – our respective homes.

It’s over for now, until the next time. Soon!!

Thursday, October 11, 2012

Bbuddah.....Hoga Tera Baap!

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70 years, an age wherein, many almost give up the tiresome daily chores that they have been going through over the past numerous years and tend to take life easy, relaxed in the company of books, music and grand kids. The focus is turned to passing on the wisdom and family traditions to the new generation in the form of short stories and anecdotes that are either part of family legacy or have been first hand experiences.

This stereotype, however, stands defied. The daily routine has become busier than ever. National and International travel are part of routine. Passive music listening is replaced by hectic dance steps to recorded numbers on a film set or playback recording at a studio. Blogging, Facebook and Twitter accounts are everyday schedule. This is the role model of the new age 70 year olds.

The name is Bachchan, Amitabh Bachchan!

But, hasn’t he defied being cast in stereotypes throughout his long, arduous and close-to-being-fatal career? Yes, he has, and no wonder it has become a habit for him to break the stereotype and challenge himself to identify, set and attain a new goal, every time.

Be it the angry and duty-bound inspector Vijay of ‘Zanjeer’ or the suave ‘Don’, the village simpleton of ‘Adalat’ or the English professor trying to teach botany in ‘Chupke-Chupke’, Master Dinanath of ‘Desh Premee’ or Vijay Dinanath Chauhan of ‘Agneepath’, every character was played with a simplistic ease by him. Every time a new challenge was met with renewed enthusiasm, infused with renewed energy and almost always resulted in a stupendous performance, a blockbuster box-office hit and overflowing cash registers. The name spelled SUCCESS!!

Not that he was King Midas, forever. A time came when the magic touch was lost. The films flopped, the fans started deserting, the producers started looking elsewhere, his production house failed miserably his detractors – in and outside of the industry – started pushing him against the wall – almost everyone started writing the epitaphs of the era and the actor of ‘yester-years’.

Write-off, they did…but he did not. His perseverance changed the then perceived destiny and surprised all those who had started looking at him as a distant blurred spot in their rear view mirrors.

Image Courtesy: AP
He bounced back and how - much bigger, (perhaps) much better, albeit a bit older but challenging the younger ones and leaving them far behind. The ‘Muqaddar Ka Sikandar’ chllanged and changed his ‘Naseeb’ . After years of entertaining the audience on the silver screen he stepped in the living rooms of individual Indian households and conquered the small screen with his rich baritone voice, inimitable style, the superlative persona in a down-to-earth avatar. The participants in the reality show ‘Kaun Banega Crorepati’ (KBC) who he interacted with, felt like millionaires just by meeting this larger than life personality who was not just in front of them but was one amongst them.

What followed is not history – it is history in making. KBC set the ball rolling. And this was no ordinary ball. It took no time in becoming a huge snowball annihilaiting any challenge coming in the way – different host for KBC, remakes of his old popular films, new generation and not-so-new generation heroes trying to oust him from the superstar pedestal, et al.

Sample this – 10 Filmfare Best Actor/Supporting Actor Awards nominations, 6 Filmfare & Stardust Awards, 2 National Awards for Best Actor all since the year 2000. Reality show KBC, experimented by getting a different host for one season and quickly – and thankfully – retraced their steps and since then, have seen the TRPs soaring with the latest season generating the maximum TRPs in the Reality Show genre.

Today, October 11, 2012, the Megastar, has turned 70 years of age. And to all those who dream of being or claim to be the Numero Uno in the hindi film industry, let me borrow a popular dialogue…”picture abhi baaki hai mere dost”. And those who feel Mr. Bachchan is old and should retire, the only answer that comes to my mind is…”Buddha Hoga Tera Baap”!!
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Happy 70th Birthday Amitabh Bachchan. We look forward to the next 70!!

Wednesday, October 3, 2012

Taking A Welcome Break...Religiously!

8 p.m., every day, for 10 days, a change had occurred in our otherwise motionless, emotionless routine of staring at the TV screens. The idiot box was switched off and the idiots in front of it were busy rummaging through the closet to find a rarely worn Indian outfit to wear for the rest of the evening. After all, some indianness needs to be presented to the social fraternity and to that special personality who is judging our performance, right up-front for these 10 days.

Siddhivinayak Ganesh
No no….this judge was not a celebrity judge of a beauty pageant, nor were we participants of one. Well, celebrity, HE sure is, perhaps the biggest of them all – The Supreme Lord  - Siddhivinayak, Ashtavinayak, Ganapatiji! And the 10 days I was referring to is the duration of Ganesh festival, which is celebrated on a humongous scale and with tremendous fervour predominantly in western India and here, in this small island country of Jamaica, while the scale may be minuscule, the per-capita enthusiasm could very well be matching that in India.

Delicious home-made food
Truly speaking, Ganapatiji, commanded equal reverence from all sections of the community bunched together in this touristy city of Montego Bay. The zeal overpowered even the strongest of the undercurrents that may have born on account of professional competitiveness among the community members…well, at least for some time! The energetic chants of “Ganapati Bappa Moriya”, the captivating aromas of incense sticks and the alluring, flickering flame of the ‘aarti’ dispelled any form of negative sentiments to create a pious environment attracting all towards the majestic idol of Ganapatiji, with folded hands, yearning to touch HIM and seek HIS blessings to achieve success in whatever one does. The subsequent distribution of home-made, deliciously mouth-watering ‘prasad’ of sweets and savouries, was the most attractive part of the rituals for kids (and many adults, too).

Ganapati Aarti
The last day of festival saw a record crowd at the venue, resulting in the longest aarti, followed by some awesome food and a revitalized enthusiasm among the passionate, who burned the all-purpose floor to the pulsating beats of the Sri Ganesha Deva song from bollywood. 

Ready for Visarjan
As it was time to bid farewell to The Lord, the crowd, the music, the chants moved out to the road leading to the Cornwall Beach. The hullabaloo attracted a lot of attention from the resident Jamaican citizenry which included a couple of cops in their flashing-blue-light Toyota, who may have come with a purpose of reining the crowd but by Lord’s grace, stood escort at the entrance. The Lord took the route to his abode via the Caribbean Sea (He did not have any other choice in any case). The idols’ ‘visarjan’ (immersion) in the calm waters on the full-moon light unwittingly brought a tear to the eye and made us utter “Thank you God for all that you have bestowed upon us and weI look forward to having you amongst us next year” “Ganpati Bappa Moriya, Agle Baras Tu Jaldi Aa

The idiot box has, since then, got its audience back and life continues,‘break ke baad